Friendship/Loyalty.

Today I learned a valuable lesson about who my real friends are and what it means to be loyal. I learned a few lessons, lessons I wouldn't trade for the world. I have always valued the word loyalty to my heart and I would give my last to a friend in need, or family I mean, I am a Leo and loyalty is one of it's main traits. Anyhow LIFE happened today, I experienced a rude awakening and I decided to call someone I considered dear to my heart though very distant and just as I imagined I was given an ass to kiss. What I have learned today is that not everyone is like me, I have huge heart, I forgive and mostly I forget that's me, I love hard not just a man I am dating, but family and friends and I would do anything I mean anything for them all as well as a stranger. I just believe it's important to be kind, even to strangers but to people that you love as well, so therefore whenever I can lend an ear I do because I enjoy helping people, I enjoy listening and encouraging people. When people do me wrong I usually feel hurt but I ask myself a question, "Even though they hurt you, if they needed would you still be there for them?" I usually say yes, but I have learned when someone hurts you time and time again, and when they prove that they can't be there for you if just emotionally then they don't deserve for you to stick around, to continue to give but then when you need they turn their backs, that's not a friend. What I have realized is that some people don't know what it means to love, some people are just self-absorbed which my friend Ash put it, and at times we are all self-absorbed but you should know when someone needs you to be there for them, and u should be there selflessly. I have learned that when someone else hurts you you shouldn't let it slide and continue to let them hurt and betray you, you should let them go. I have also learned, that yes everyone deserves a 2nd chance but that 2nd chance won't be with me.

-Love Paris